We make efforts to instill in each child a sense of well being, self esteem and build integrity and character while we manage their welfare and education issues. No small task to be sure. Our appreciation for the relentless efforts of some great teachers, volunteers and psychologists blended with the support of the parents, international and Peruvian assistance can not be overstated. But there is something we missed and this concerns me deeply.
Millie, our 4 year old, was telling me, in the most innocent voice, that her mother does not like gringos (white people). I asked her why and she said,"My mother thinks all gringos are monos,(monkeys)". I told her I was a gringo, but am I a monkey? "No, you're Jim, that is why I am confused." she told me. Being refered to as a 'gringo' in Peru is not intended to be an insult as it is in other parts of the world. So now it was time for a chat.
I have always been of the opinion that people are people are people. There are individuals that are good and individuals that are bad. That can not be a reflection on everyone who looks like that individual. I am not a representitive of all white people. With the rarest of exceptions, the Peruvian people have treated me with dignity and respect. I accepted that I am a minority in Peru long ago. It hasn't mattered ... until now.
I am coming rapidly to the conclusion that nothing can be taken for granted and nothing left to chance. Racism has been the root cause of so many horrific incidences in my home country of the United States and throughout the world. Racism, in all of its insidious forms, is simplified as an ignorance of who and what different people are. The names given to people who are different only perpetrate the hatred. Hatred causes fear, distrust and ultimately people react to their personal prejudices. The chain reaction, which becomes inevitable, destroys lives, opportunities and the haters themselves.
Changes for New Hope will endeavor to make each child aware that people are different all over the world. All colors, all social standings, every sort of variation and difference must be met with tolerance and compassion. Those who pose a threat to their safety or wellbeing must be seen as exceptions to humanity as a whole. Impressionable little ones, such as Milli, can grow up to fully appreciate and have a love for all of humanity, but the lessons start now. Weeds in the garden of young minds must be plucked out before deep roots make that an impossiblity. -Jim Killon